memorable first kiss but worry about whether or not she will think I tried going too far too soon. She splits her time between writing for The Date Mix and working on the Zoosk product, which gives her behind-the-scenes knowledge about the world of online dating. Like all advice, its good to take all of this feedback with a grain of salt. Most guys, like me, will not approach or even show interest unless there is at least some interest directed by the woman. A sense of humor and someone who values faith and family. She will sense your confidence as you talk passionately about.